Sex positions

Sex positions are not a flexibility test or a list to get through. The useful one is the position that gives your bodies the support, angle, pace or closeness you want today. That might mean more room for hands, less weight on knees, eye contact, an easier way to change rhythm, or no penetration at all.

This collection gathers specific questions about starting out, different heights, tired bodies, a sofa, pillows, oral sex and the practical details that make a position feel good rather than like a chore. The answers name what changes the angle and why, so you can borrow the useful bit without copying a whole routine.

Pain, numbness, breathlessness or a position that keeps leaving you sore are not things to push through. Stop, change the setup, add support or leave it for another day. If pain is strong, persistent or new, a sexual-health clinic, GP or other clinician can help you work out what needs attention.