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Condoms and safer sex

Condoms and safer sex

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A condom works best when it is the right fit, used once, put on before genital contact and paired with a compatible lubricant when you need one. That is the practical starting point, but the questions around condoms are rarely only technical. They can also be about losing an erection, feeling rushed, using sex toys or wondering whether extra layers are somehow safer.

This collection keeps those questions together. It covers size, two condoms, oil and latex, lubricant and breakage, shared toys and confidence when putting one on changes the mood. It does not promise zero risk: barriers reduce risk when used correctly, but no article can tell you the exact risk from a particular encounter.

If a condom breaks, slips or is used incorrectly and pregnancy or an STI is a concern, a pharmacy, sexual-health clinic or clinician can explain the time-sensitive options. Use a new condom for each act of vaginal, anal or oral sex, and a new one when moving between acts. If you are worried about an exposure, do not wait for symptoms to decide whether to seek advice.

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